{"id":301,"date":"2010-01-11T14:15:45","date_gmt":"2010-01-11T18:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/?p=301"},"modified":"2010-01-11T14:15:45","modified_gmt":"2010-01-11T18:15:45","slug":"just-look-where-dinner-with-a-stranger-has-led","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/just-look-where-dinner-with-a-stranger-has-led\/","title":{"rendered":"Just look where &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; has led&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Dinner with a Stranger visual essay by Franke James\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/1_dwasDec09.jpg\" alt=\"illustration by Franke James\" width=\"500\" height=\"604\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Dinner with a Stranger visual essay by Franke James\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/1b_dwascharity.jpg\" alt=\"illustration by Franke James\" width=\"500\" height=\"592\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>The unlikely results of &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>I never expected that by saying &#8220;yes&#8221; to one dinner with a stranger last Christmas, that I&#8217;d still be talking about it one year later. The dinner took place last January and benefited the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ysm.on.ca\/\">Yonge Street Mission<\/a>. I created a visual essay about it called &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118\">Dinner with a Stranger<\/a>.&#8221; (See the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118\"><strong>original essay here<\/strong><\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>When the essay first launched, it quickly got picked up by <a href=\"http:\/\/digg.com\/arts_culture\/I_Had_Dinner_With_a_Stranger_Here_s_What_Happened_PICS\">Digg<\/a>, Reddit, <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/\">Kottke<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/blogto.com\/eat_drink\/2009\/02\/dinner_with_a_stranger\/\">BlogTO<\/a>, etc. It was so popular, our server crashed. Some resourceful people mirrored it on other sites while we frantically worked to move to a server with cloud computing (the advantage being expandable bandwidth).<\/p>\n<h3>What was the response?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who had similar experiences, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-61141\"> I love it! What a great story <\/a> \u2013 I\u2019m so happy you said yes, and shared the story here. I hope that the idea catches on. Five or six years ago my husband and I got a somewhat similar, completely random online request. Only, it wasn\u2019t asking us for dinner \u2013 it was from an 18yr old kid across the country who had just graduated high school&#8230;.&#8221; <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who were admiring but fearful,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-61266\">Wonderfully wacky<\/a> and fun but I\u2019m happy to see that you did some research before agreeing to the request. You two are an inspiration and the Yonge Street Mission is a very worthwhile charity.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who were touched,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-61463\" target=\"_self\">Thank you so much<\/a> for the heart warming story. It shows such trust, care and thoughtfulness I hope that others take up the cause. Brought a tear and a smile to my face.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who were inspired,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-61790\" target=\"_self\">My mind is swirling<\/a> on how can I use this for our non-profit youth group. Better yet to help small business help jump start the economy\u2026WOW what a concept\u2026.help Mother Earth and the people that live on it\u2026thanks Franke.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who were having lunches instead of dinners,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-66171\" target=\"_self\">Wonderful posting!<\/a> Communities In Schools (a national, private nonprofit dropout-prevention initiative) hosts an annual \u201c<a href=\" http:\/\/www.lunchwithaleader.com\/home.asp\" target=\"_blank\">Lunch with a Leader<\/a>\u201d where people bid for lunch with various celebrities with the proceeds going to help CIS. Thanks for the posting!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I heard from people who wanted to make it happen in their town,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-61473\" target=\"_self\">What a fabulous idea<\/a> and wonderful way to pay it forward. I\u2019m actually thinking about doing something similarly here in Massachusetts. Thank you Franke for posting your experience in what can be said a very colorful way. And Thank you to Mark the \u201cstranger\u201d for taking the first step.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>And then I heard from&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/video\/#\/News\/TV_Shows\/The_National\/Canada\/ID=1365092546\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"CBC story\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/1_dwasCBC.jpg\" alt=\"CBC screenshot\" width=\"500\" height=\"398\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>folks at the CBC who wanted to spread the story on TV and radio&#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>CBC television&#8217;s<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/video\/#\/News\/TV_Shows\/The_National\/Canada\/ID=1365092546\"> The National<\/a> and CBC radio&#8217;s<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/spark\/2009\/12\/spark-96-december-20-22-2009\/\"> The Spark<\/a> both contacted me separately and wanted to share the story of &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; with their audience. Wow! The same story told in two different mediums.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And the magic of the story worked for TV and radio audiences too&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;Just saw your spot on the CBC- awesome!! And I really liked that idea of dinner for charity, what a refreshing change from mainstream consumerism!&#8221; <\/em><strong>Facebook comment<\/strong><em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-89380\" target=\"_self\">What a great idea with an even better cause!<\/a> Your creative flow is inspiring and heart warming not to mention hilarious! Just caught it on CBC News and found myself totally absorbed by the report. I guess I&#8217;ll keep this in mind for my next big surprise to my partner. Thank you! Happy Festive Season!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=118#comment-89350\" target=\"_self\">How lovely! Both the Dinner with a Stranger<\/a> and your totally entertaining website&#8230; How did I know about this? Doing my year-end taxes while listening to the CBC and was so intrigued by the story I just had to search you out. What a pleasure. Happy holidays!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Check out the stories for yourself&#8230; Each creative team brought new creativity and added a new dimension to the experience of &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Watch <\/strong><a id=\"1365092546&quot;\" href=\"&lt;a href=\">&#8220;Stranger for Christmas<\/a>&#8221; by CBC video-journalist, Peter Wall.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/video\/#\/News\/TV_Shows\/The_National\/Canada\/ID=1365092546\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"CBC story\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/2_dwasCBC.jpg\" alt=\"CBC screenshot\" width=\"500\" height=\"398\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Listen to <\/strong><a href=\"&lt;a href=\">&#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221;<\/a> with host, Nora Young:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/spark\/2009\/12\/spark-96-december-20-22-2009\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"CBC radio story\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/3_sparkCBCaudio.jpg\" alt=\"CBC Spark screenshot\" width=\"500\" height=\"186\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Spark is hosted by <strong>Nora Young<\/strong> with creative, research and technical assistance by <strong>Elizabeth Bowie<\/strong> and <strong>Dan Misener<\/strong>. [DWAS interview runs from 17:11 to 24:54]<\/p>\n<h2>Is this the end of the &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; story?<\/h2>\n<p>Nope. It&#8217;s just the beginning. In the New Year, I&#8217;ll tell you the story of my <strong>Dinner with a Stranger<\/strong> in Sweden. It took place while I was attending the UN climate change talks in Copenhagen in December 2009.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"photo of Dinner with a Stranger in Sweden by Franke James\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/dwas_sweden.jpg\" border=\"1\" alt=\"photo of dinner in sweden by Franke James\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I also look forward to hearing whether you would say &#8220;yes&#8221; to dinner with a stranger.<\/p>\n<h3>My best wishes to you for a wonderful holiday, and happy, healthy and green 2010.<\/h3>\n<p>In honor of the first <a href=\"..\/?p=118\" target=\"_self\">Dinner with a Stranger<\/a> I&#8217;ve made a donation to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ysm.on.ca\/\">Yonge Street Mission<\/a> for their Christmas dinners for the homeless.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"close-up photo of Franke's Christmas tree\" src=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/wp-content\/dwas_xmastree.jpg\" border=\"1\" alt=\"close-up photo of Franke's Christmas tree\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Just look where &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; has led&#8230; \u00a9 2009 Franke James<\/p>\n<p>Illustrations, photos and writing by <a href=\"..\/?page_id=28\">Franke James<\/a>, MFA except as noted:<\/p>\n<p>Screen shots from CBC <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/video\/#\/News\/TV_Shows\/The_National\/Canada\/ID=1365092546\" target=\"_blank\">National News<\/a> and CBC Radio <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/spark\/2009\/12\/spark-96-december-20-22-2009\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Spark<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>[originally posted on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankejames.com\/debate\/?p=970\" target=\"_self\">Franke James site<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The unlikely results of &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; I never expected that by saying &#8220;yes&#8221; to one dinner with a stranger last Christmas, that I&#8217;d still be talking about it one year later. The dinner took place last January and benefited the Yonge Street Mission. I created a visual essay about it called &#8220;Dinner with &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/just-look-where-dinner-with-a-stranger-has-led\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Just look where &#8220;Dinner with a Stranger&#8221; has led&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[253,254,255,256,257,16,258,259,260,261,262,263],"class_list":["post-301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-creativity","category-news","tag-cbc","tag-cop15","tag-dan-misener","tag-dinner-with-a-stranger","tag-elizabeth-bowie","tag-franke-james","tag-national","tag-nora-young","tag-peter-wall","tag-spark","tag-sweden","tag-yonge-street-mission"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=301"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/301\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":304,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/301\/revisions\/304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jamesgang.com\/ideas\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}